Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Bad Emotions?


Depression
Flush it away. Why? Because it only makes you and your surrounding dull. Its shows how boring and sad type of a person you are and no one likes to keep company with such a person, do they? Instead smile and make someone’s day. You don’t know but there are tons of people out there who want to see you smile :)

Tears
Wipe them away. Why? Because they show that you have been sad, angry or frustrated :/. Most of the time we cry not because we are sad but because we are angry or frustrated. Do you know that when you cry people who care about you and love you feel so hurt?!?. They start thinking that its because of them that you’re suffering this pain. So guys please for others sake don't cry.

Jealousy
Extinguish it. Why? Because it is like a fire that keeps on growing and won't stop until you do something. It causes a lot of damage and disrupts so many lives. If it takes over you, it will make you do so many things that you have never even imagined. That’s why extinguish this feeling because the consequences of this burn would be so severe that there would be no medicine to cure it.

Anger
Control it. Why? Because its dangerous. When you lose control, you do things that you will destroy people’s lives, hurt people’s feelings and most of all you will lose your friends. Now you don’t want that to happen do you? So control the damage while you still can ‘cause.

Hate
Avoid it. Why? Because it’s a dirty feeling. Hating someone  makes your mind and heart dirty. You just think of finding faults with a person and nothing else. You just want a 1000reasons to hate someone but you will never think of a 1000reasons to like that person. So avoid this feeling which increases the amount of negativity within you. No one like a negative person.


So guys on today’s auspicious day letz burn away all these negativity and bad emotions within us and become a better person.

Happy Dussera! :D

Saturday, October 20, 2012

So What is friendship?


What is friendship and who are best friends, I wonder? :/

Well best friends are not people who share secrets with you or laugh, giggle and gossip about others with you. Best friends are people who stick around with you when you're having a bad time. They do not abandon you when you need them the most. And here's something new, they do not blackmail you. (Something i learned recently).You tease them, irritate them, annoy them --They dislike it but they put it away with a smile.

They understand you when you're hurt. They understand when you feel weird or awkward around a particular person. They don't push you to do things that would hurt others feelings but they will surely make you do things that will embarrass you and make you look foolish in front of others xD

If you get into a fight, a true friend will be the one who will patch up things and not add fuel to the fire. He/She shares his/her food with you, entertain you when you're bored, when you feel sleepy they annoy you and make amazingly funny cartoons of you on the desks. They pass so many remarks against you and give you the most smartest no, the most stupidest advice ever that makes you laugh like hell xD (But actually helps you a lot ;) )

These were your friends! But your friendship? Is it true? Is it faithful? Is it loyal? So What is friendship? O.o

According to me, friendship is understanding. A friend should be able to read your face and understand what you're feeling and what you're going through. They can understand your unspoken words and can communicate with you with just eye movements! ;)) (Happens with me daily ^_^)

According me your friendship and your friends come before your boyfriend/girlfriend!
Like c'mon..They have been there by your side always and all of a sudden you start dating someone so you just forget them? Isn't that mean and selfish? What if you break up? That time you will go running to your friend, right? So how can you forget them?
Friendship doesn't mean that the friend is always there by your side but when they need you, you disappear *Boom*
Nope. That's not right. You will be acting selfish then.
And the thing that I am noticing the most these days. Friends Change. They make some new friends. Let them! Don't be jealous. If they change. Let them. Change is good. But if they ignore you, avoid you and if you notice that the change is bad. FIGHT. Because it is wrong. Try to solve the misunderstandings and try to revert the person back to normal.


That is TRUE FRIENDSHIP! ^_^
True bliss and happiness is attained only when you have a friend who loves and cares about you and you know that no matter what, they will be there by your side. :')

-Dedicated to all my friends.

Thanks guys <3 :*